22 Key Mediumship Reading Questions Answered
Stepping into a mediumship reading can often feel like entering uncharted territory. It’s a bit like starting a journey into a mysterious yet profoundly familiar realm. Whether you’re full of skepticism or brimming with curiosity, or maybe a bit of both, let’s demystify what a mediumship reading really entails.
Having sat on both sides of the table—giving and receiving readings—I’ve come to see this experience as less about seeking definitive answers and more about exploring the profound connections that stretch beyond the here and now.
It’s about opening a dialog with the past, easing the present, and peeking into the future, all in one go.
So, if you’re ready, let’s clear up some common questions and share a bit of what I’ve learned along the way. Whether you’re considering your first reading or just curious about the process, this guide is for you. Let’s dive into the spirit of mediumship readings together, shall we?
To help you get a clearer picture of what to expect in a Mediumship reading, you can also check out this post to help you decide if the medium you chose is legit and can give you a quality reading.
Getting to Know the Spirit of Mediumship Readings
I’m here to share what I’ve learned along the way as a developing psychic medium—no spooky stuff, just real, heartfelt experiences. So let’s pull back the veil on the enigmatic world of mediumship.
1. What even is a mediumship reading?
Think of a mediumship reading like catching up with an old friend via a long-distance call where I’m the operator connecting two lines. In this case, though, your friend is in the spirit world. The session can be deeply moving, sometimes bringing up shared memories or messages you’ve longed to hear.
Early on in my practice, I was surprised at how even the most hardened skeptics softened when a perfectly tailored, impossible-to-know detail was shared from a loved one.
It’s these profound connections that remind us of the bonds that continue beyond the physical.
2. Will I hear something scary?
The last thing the spirit world wants is to scare you. Their messages are meant to heal, comfort, and often to close old wounds with laughter or tears.
In one memorable session, I conveyed an apology from a spirit who joked about an infamous, long standing joke that was on repeat throughout his son’s life, which brought unexpected laughter and tears to my sitter.
It showed me the lighter side of the spiritual connections even though I didn’t get the joke at all, I thought what I was receiving wasn’t hitting home until the sitter explained it me after the session.
3. How do I know if it’s real or just some cold reading tricks?
The accuracy of the details that come through—like a forgotten nickname or a private joke— these are the non-googleable things that could only come from them. For instance, I once mentioned a peculiar, homemade holiday ornament that no one else could have known about. That whole session not only touched her but reinforced the reality of the connection for both of us.
Over the past few years, these moments have strengthened my faith in the genuine nature of spirit communication and its capacity to offer real comfort and closure.
Skepticism is healthy, but genuine connections often leave you with answering your own question, “That was really them. “
4. Can I reach out to a specific person in the spirit world?
While it’s not a direct line, you can certainly express your wish to connect with a specific soul. However, the spirit world works on its own terms, so who comes through can be a surprise. It’s like a cosmic call waiting—you never know who might pick up on the other end. But most mediums will try for you probably later on in the reading.
But most of the time those spirits we really want to talk to you have a tendency to show up without us asking. Before you go in, think back to memories you shared, that usually brings them in.
This aspect of mediumship taught me to trust in the process and embrace whoever comes through, knowing there’s a purpose behind every connection.
5. What if no one comes through for me?
Sometimes, the universe hits the pause button, and that’s okay. It doesn’t mean you’re not loved or remembered; the timing might just be off. Mediums often suggest being open to the experience without banking on a specific outcome.
There have been times when my own expectations blocked me from connecting with my sitter’s loved ones. Or I would be more nervous about a particular reading, causing me to put a choke hold on my ability to connect.
I will add here, but don’t quote me, Gordon Smith is one of the world most accurate mediums, and he doesn’t ever charge for his readings, the reason? Well he says that the nature of mediumship in it’s self is inconsistent. He could have several readings a day that went well in a row and the next be a miss.
My advice is to reschedule with the medium if you still resonate with their energy. Or find another medium that resonates with you to bring your loved one through.
Sometimes, the experience is the message your loved ones want to convey.
6. How can I prepare for a reading?
Come with an open heart and a dash of patience. Keep an open mind, pack lightly on expectations, and bring along your sense of wonder.
It’s helpful to think about happy memories you’ve had with your loved ones, but remember, the best experiences often come from unexpected adventures.
From my own experiences on both sides of the mediumship, going with the flow allows for the most profound connections and surprises. Treat it as an opportunity to learn and grow, no matter what comes through.
7. Is this going to change my life?
It might not be a life-overhaul moment, but it can definitely offer new perspectives, healing, and sometimes a profound sense of peace. Whether it’s a nudge towards closure or a laugh over a fond memory, the impact is as unique as the individual.
It can be transformative. Personally, I’ve witnessed people rediscover hope and purpose after sessions, especially when they connect with a message that resonates deeply. These moments remind us that our loved ones continue to influence and guide us, even from the spirit world.
Whether it’s a subtle shift or a significant change, the impact of a genuine connection can change the way we walk through life.
8. How often should I get a mediumship reading?
There’s no one-size-fits-all answer here. This is deeply personal and varies from person to person. Some find that regular readings help them navigate life more smoothly, while others may feel that a single profound session carries them through many years or the rest of their life.
Reflect on what your heart tells you; there’s a natural rhythm to these things. In my practice, I encourage sitters to seek readings as they feel drawn to them—whether it’s driven by a need for guidance, comfort, or affirmation.
Alot of mediums put time frames on this like maybe once every six month or year. But as a medium who has a lot of loved on the other side and who has sat regularly for other mediums, I’ve had a lot of readings.
And it’s kinda helped me in my own journey, so just work that one out for yourself
Trust your intuition—it will let you know when it’s time to reach out.
9. What’s the deal with online vs. in-person readings?
The power of spirit communication knows no bounds—not even physical ones. Whether we connect through the internet or face-to-face, the essence and quality of the messages remain untouched. I’ve conducted readings where the emotional depth and spiritual connection were so profound that it felt as though no screen or distance existed between us. This has shown me time and again that spirit energy flows freely, no matter the medium.
You can choose to have an in-person session or not, but remember that spirits are flexible and energy doesn’t have boundaries.
10. Can mediumship readings help with grief?
Absolutely. While readings aren’t a replacement for professional therapy or grief counseling, they can offer a unique form of comfort and closure that you might not find elsewhere.
One of the most profound aspects of mediumship is its ability to provide comfort to those grieving. Speaking from personal experience, as someone whose done both giving and receiving messages, it significantly eases the pain of my loss.
The reassurance that my loved ones were at peace and that their presence still surrounded me helped me begin healing much more easily.
It wasn’t about replacing grief with closure but providing a space to start healing with the knowledge that love transcends physical death.
11. Are there questions spirits can’t or won’t answer?
Spirits are wise and discerning with the information they choose to share. They often avoid questions about lottery numbers or the exact timing of future events as these can detract from the lessons we need to learn on our own.
You might get a polite spiritual “no comment.”
Their guidance is typically aimed at fostering growth, healing, and personal development. They respect our free will immensely, choosing to offer insights that empower us rather than direct answers that might limit our personal journey.
12. What if I’m nervous or skeptical?
Feeling nervous or skeptical is totally normal—I’ve been there myself! When I first started giving and receiving readings, those butterflies were always fluttering. And to be honest they’re still there when I start a session, but tend to ease when I start to blend with the energies.
A bit of skepticism isn’t a bad thing; it can actually sharpen your senses and help you appreciate the authenticity of the experience even more. Over time, as you witness the specific and often very personal messages that come through, you might find that skepticism gently fading away.
Remember, it’s okay to question what you’re told—this can be part of your journey towards understanding regardless of where you stand on the belief spectrum.
13. Can mediumship readings predict the future?
Mediumship isn’t about laying out your future step-by-step. It’s more about offering guidance and shedding light on possibilities. Spirits might provide insights that suggest directions or choices, but you hold the pen that writes your life story.
The messages received are like hints or whispers of potential paths, leaving the decisions up to you. In my own experiences, these glimpses have often served as affirmations or warnings, helping to prepare rather than dictate.
It’s like getting a spiritual weather report; conditions are subject to change based on free will and life’s unpredictable nature.
14. What if I receive a message that’s hard to understand?
It’s not uncommon for some messages to be enigmatic or seem irrelevant at the moment. I always advise jotting down everything you hear during a reading. Reflection is powerful, and sometimes the meaning becomes clear days, weeks, or even months later.
In my practice, there have been many times when a message didn’t make sense initially but later fit perfectly into place, offering significant insights at just the right moment.
This is why a lot of mediums will say, “Email me or message me if that makes sense later.”
15. How can I ensure my reading is as accurate as possible?
Openness and honesty from your side can greatly enhance the accuracy of a reading. Responding simply with ‘yes’, ‘no’, or ‘maybe’ without giving away too much information helps keep the channel clear and the messages pure.
Think of it as a collaborative effort where your energy and receptivity play crucial roles.
From my experience, the readings where clients have been open and yet reserved are often the most profound and accurate. This also helps with skepticism if you aren’t telling the medium all things and they end up in their head making connections that aren’t there.
So, talk about all the “things” after the reading and give validation and feed back. Or your reading may not be as accurate as you would have hoped.
It’s best if we know nothing the first time we connect to a spirit loved one in a reading.
16. Will I feel different after a reading?
Many people report a range of emotions following a mediumship reading—from uplifted and comforted to deeply reflective. It’s not uncommon to feel a sense of peace or even a lightness, as if a weight has been lifted. Each person’s experience is unique, so there’s no right or wrong way to feel.
Each session can evoke different feelings depending on the messages and your personal connections to them. Personally, I’ve felt everything from overwhelming calm to joyful exhilaration after sessions, both as a medium and as a sitter.
It’s a unique and deeply personal journey that might stir emotions you didn’t expect.
17. Is it possible to connect with pets or animals?
Absolutely! Our furry (or feathered or scaled) friends often make their presence known in readings. The bonds we share with pets transcend the physical world, and their spirits can come through with messages of love and comfort, just like human spirits.
Pet mediums are more specialized and trained in our fury friends though so that may be a better option to look into. Pet psychic mediumship readings can have a massive healing impact on grieving pet parents.
18. How do I deal with messages that don’t make sense to me?
Sometimes, messages from the spirit world can feel like a puzzle piece that doesn’t fit anywhere. From my own journey, I’ve learned that it’s important to just let these messages sit for a while. Write them down, revisit them later.
You might be surprised how often a message that seemed irrelevant at the time becomes clear and significant later.
There’s a saying in our field, “It’s not a ‘no,’ it’s just a ‘not now.’” Patience here can reveal wisdom in ways you didn’t expect.
Mediums can’t be 100% all the time. We are still human after all.
19. What if I don’t connect with the medium’s style?
Just like in life, not every medium will be the right fit for you, and that’s okay. It’s important to find someone whose style, energy, and approach resonate with you.
Finding the right medium can be similar to dating—you’re looking for a match that feels comfortable and right. It’s perfectly okay to shop around.
Remember, the medium’s style, their approach to conveying messages, and how they resonate with you can greatly affect your experience. I’ve had sessions where the connection just wasn’t there, and it taught me how crucial compatibility is in this intimate exchange.
20. Can a mediumship reading change my beliefs?
Absolutely, and in ways you might not anticipate. Whether you enter a reading as a skeptic or a believer, the insights provided can profoundly affect your outlook.
I’ve seen hardened skeptics soften and “sort of” believers question; the key is to remain open to the experience. Mediumship has the potential to broaden your understanding of life, death, and what might lie beyond, challenging you to expand your worldview.
Keep an open mind, but always stay true to what feels right for you.
21. Is there anything I should do after the mediumship reading?
Taking time to process a reading is as important as the reading itself. I recommend finding a quiet space to reflect—whether it’s journaling your thoughts, meditating on the messages, or taking a peaceful walk. This can help assimilate and appreciate the insights provided.
Personally, I find that nature walks help clear my mind and allow the spiritual insights to settle comfortably in my heart.
If the session was recorded, relisten to it in about a week and see what you may have missed that might make sense now.
22. Can a mediumship reading be wrong?
Just like any other form of communication, mediumship isn’t foolproof. Misinterpretations can happen. When I first started developing as a medium my clairvoyance was so accurate and detailed, as I grew in my development that changed during a mentorship I was in.
My clairsentience kicked on over drive and nothing I saw and described made sense. So my accuracy went from 99% to like 2% in one mentoring session.
I had to relearn how my abilities worked, and it was honestly like starting over; in that very uncomfortable unfolding process, I had to practice, practice, practice.
Even now, it can be a hit or miss with readings for me, but my guides are trying to get through to me that, ” Who cares what other people think, other than you and your sitter. The rest of the world can go judge their own damn self.” lol
No one will ever be perfect or get everything right all the time. Even the famous psychic mediums have all those not-so-perfect moments edited out, or don’t let it phase them one bit because they aren’t trying to prove anything to anyone anymore.
It happens, just reschedule.
Remember, it shouldn’t be just about proving something right or wrong but about gaining insights that might help guide you on your path. I use all the No’s I may get to learn and grow. And hopefully your mediums will be doing the same.
I think a lot of mediums tend to get caught up in the belief that, “Oh no, if I mess up, I’ll be shamed…. and no one will ever believe that I’m a medium.”
And trust me I struggle with that a bit myself…. but I’m working on it.
Are Mediumship Readings the Real Deal?
If you’re scratching your head wondering whether mediumship readings are legit, I’m here to say—yes, they absolutely are! A healthy dose of skepticism is needed I think, because we should all keep our curiosity with us. This also ensures you’re truly open to the experience without getting taken for a ride by a scammer too.
From my own journey, toggling between giving and receiving readings, I’ve seen firsthand how profound these connections can be from a genuine medium. And trust me, doing a bit of homework on how to spot the real deal versus the fakes is well worth your time. If you’re curious about where to start or looking for recommendations, just click [here]—I’ve got a list of trusted mediums that might help.
Diving into a mediumship reading can open up a world as enlightening as it is mysterious. It’s like getting a backstage pass to the unseen, filling the spaces between with comfort, guidance, and, sometimes, a new perspective on life itself.
The thing is, connecting with the spirit world is a deeply personal journey. Going into it with an open heart and mind isn’t just a suggestion; it’s a must if you want to experience the profound insights that await truly.
So, what do you think? Do you have any experiences or burning questions about mediumship readings? Drop them in the comments below—I’d love to hear your stories and help guide you further!
The spirits are always ready to share their stories—are you ready to listen? And if you’re feeling the pull to dive deeper into this world, check out my guide on the simple path to developing your own mediumship skills. Let’s explore this journey together.
